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Assuming this is an American company and your coworkers are Americans, her behavior appears to be somewhat defensive. She appears to see you as an outsider and perhaps even something of a threat. She seems to be trying to get past this, possibly she actually likes your personality.
Americans do not often make close friendships at work. They work more as individuals rather than as a team. So they often do not consider the needs of others on the team.
You will need to express your needs directly – such as wanting to keep you laptop to work later. This will not be seen as rude. Give her more time to get to know you, but go slowly as Americans sometime get suspicious when someone if very friendly at work because they don’t understand that is normal in your culture.
Also, she may not understand when you ask questions because of your accent. For this you should speak up and speak slowly. And Americans expect for you to try to answer your questions yourself before asking someone else. When you ask questions too often they may become annoyed and think you are too lazy to look for the answer yourself. I know this is a difficult point. If you are unsure where to look up the answers yourself, you should ask her to suggest books, manuals, or some other source for information. This is an important point, when you work for Americans and they give you a job to do, they will expect you to figure out what must be done to complete the job as much as possible and not wait for specific instructions or ask questions until you have tried to figure it out for yourself.
Americans are very direct. Sometimes what may sound like an insult or put-down, is not intended to be so.
I wish you luck. I know Americans can sometimes be a puzzle, but you will find most are friendly in their own way.

]]> Comment on Is the entertainment industry promoting gay lifestyles to create Democrat voters? by K'lee http://www.diversitates.org/is-the-entertainment-industry-promoting-gay-lifestyles-to-create-democrat-voters/#comment-6165 K'lee Sun, 03 Apr 2011 17:02:44 +0000 http://www.diversitates.org/is-the-entertainment-industry-promoting-gay-lifestyles-to-create-democrat-voters/#comment-6165 No, of course not that's ridiculous. It is true that Hollywood and the American entertainment industry in general is very socially liberal but that's because the people who are part of that industry are usually liberal minded people (drama, arts, dance, etc - these are things a lot of liberal people seem to be interested in). I don't think there's any secret "deal" between Hollywood producers and the Democratic Party. Most people in Hollywood are Democrats but again that's only because they were liberal minded people to begin with anyways. Hollywood used to be heavily Republican back in the days when the Republicans were considered to be the progressive party. No, of course not that’s ridiculous.

It is true that Hollywood and the American entertainment industry in general is very socially liberal but that’s because the people who are part of that industry are usually liberal minded people (drama, arts, dance, etc – these are things a lot of liberal people seem to be interested in). I don’t think there’s any secret “deal” between Hollywood producers and the Democratic Party. Most people in Hollywood are Democrats but again that’s only because they were liberal minded people to begin with anyways.

Hollywood used to be heavily Republican back in the days when the Republicans were considered to be the progressive party.

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